Archive for March, 2006
How to STOP Choosing the Wrong Guys
Wednesday, March 15th, 2006When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they’re giving up their OWN personal independence (during that timebecause it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing signs of dependency on a woman.
When your emotions start to take over you have to understand where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality of things. Many men fail because they just can’t control theirthoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman.
Just because you’re interested in her doesn’t mean she’s interested in you.
Women are world class body language readers (they were born to know what to look for and how to respond) and can see any
sign of nervousness when you are around them.
Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women upfront (or later on in the relationship when you only see her ‘wonderful’ side and ‘fall for her’) means that you are losing your own power, strength and independence (already confusedand muddled because of growing up being hidden from the truth).
When this happens it means that she CANNOT be attracted to you.So all the nice guys out there that try to put their ‘best’ foot forward (and not really being their true self) are really failing and stepping on their own feet. They’re not being honest with themselves and their intentions.
Not to mention that many women today don’t want to be courted and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they want to be free and let things happen more naturally.
Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women they desire that they don’t realize there’s nothing they could say to salvage it.
She already lost interest the second she saw him yet they’ll still try to learn pick-up lines in a desperate attempt to succeed to the point their devotion to it becomes unnatural.
All men were born with the inherent power to please women. And it’s all done on a natural level that’s really more important to her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be able to trust the man to BE a man.
Women are waiting for the ‘real men’ (who respect her and her body without saying a word) because there are so few left anymore.
Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man
to reach the natural part of (all) women.
This power is greater than your own independent ‘personality’ or your social character and it’s the power that matters when it comes to succeeding with women and giving women what they want.
Become a man who is ‘comfortable in his own skin’ and maintain
that congruency and you’ll find that women will treat you differently and actually notice you.
Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses you or not (as a response to your character or approach) but as a man you will lead the way.
The nice guy will ‘fail’ in attracting women because he’s not inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.
Is it his fault for growing up in a forced reality which covers up his real power and effectiveness? No.
Does he have to take accountability for his actions and
future? Yes. Understanding these things will allow him to move forward into a whole level of success that he has only dreamed of.
I like to see things this way:
You can’t go with a fat, ugly chick just as much as she can’t
go with a man of low character.
Women today love sex just as much as men but they expect a guy they can trust first and if you’re showing signs of dependency
or that you’re too interested in her and would change your ways
to be with her, it ain’t going to work out.
The good news is that women will KNOW when you are that man
they want.
To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across
the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and
you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up
the chance to meet you.
The whole game turns around at that point and other guys will
continue to fail because they didn’t understand the big game
of attraction and how to apply it themselves to be more
naturally themselves.
Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed
to be instead of having to trick them into something and you’ll
be able to attract women nonverbally.
All men have this power and potential despite their money or
looks. It’s all about how she feels when she’s around you
and that ALL comes down to your character and who you are.
So I recommend to prevent failure and have success with
women and dating!
dating today but I’d like to look at it from an angle that you may
not have thought about before.
When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start
becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they’re
giving up their OWN personal independence (during that time
because it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing
signs of dependency on a woman.
When your emotions start to take over you have to understand
where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality
of things. Many men fail because they just can’t control their
thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman.
Just because you’re interested in her doesn’t mean she’s interested
in you.
Women are world class body language readers (they were born
to know what to look for and how to respond) and can see any
sign of nervousness when you are around them.
Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women
upfront (or later on in the relationship when you only see her
‘wonderful’ side and ‘fall for her’) means that you are losing
your own power, strength and independence (already confused
and muddled because of growing up being hidden from the truth).
When this happens it means that she CANNOT be attracted to you.
So all the nice guys out there that try to put their ‘best’ foot
forward (and not really being their true self) are really failing
and stepping on their own feet. They’re not being honest with
themselves and their intentions.
Not to mention that many women today don’t want to be courted
and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they
want to be free and let things happen more naturally.
Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women
they desire that they don’t realize there’s nothing they could say
to salvage it.
She already lost interest the second she saw him yet they’ll still
try to learn pick-up lines in a desperate attempt to succeed to the
point their devotion to it becomes unnatural.
All men were born with the inherent power to please women.
And it’s all done on a natural level that’s really more important
to her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be
able to trust the man to BE a man.
Women are waiting for the ‘real men’ (who respect her and her
body without saying a word) because there are so few left
anymore.
Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man
to reach the natural part of (all) women.
This power is greater than your own independent ‘personality’
or your social character and it’s the power that matters when
it comes to succeeding with women and giving women what they
want.
Become a man who is ‘comfortable in his own skin’ and maintain
that congruency and you’ll find that women will treat you differently
and actually notice you.
Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses
you or not (as a response to your character or approach) but as a
man you will lead the way.
The nice guy will ‘fail’ in attracting women because he’s not
inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.
Is it his fault for growing up in a forced reality which
covers up his real power and effectiveness? No.
Does he have to take accountability for his actions and
future? Yes. Understanding these things will allow him
to move forward into a whole level of success that he
has only dreamed of.
I like to see things this way:
You can’t go with a fat, ugly chick just as much as she can’t
go with a man of low character.
Women today love sex just as much as men but they expect a guy
they can trust first and if you’re showing signs of dependency
or that you’re too interested in her and would change your ways
to be with her, it ain’t going to work out.
The good news is that women will KNOW when you are that man
they want.
To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across
the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and
you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up
the chance to meet you.
The whole game turns around at that point and other guys will
continue to fail because they didn’t understand the big game
of attraction and how to apply it themselves to be more
naturally themselves.
Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed
to be instead of having to trick them into something and you’ll
be able to attract women nonverbally.
All men have this power and potential despite their money or
looks. It’s all about how she feels when she’s around you
and that ALL comes down to your character and who you are.
So I recommend to prevent failure and have success with
women and dating!
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7 Great Online Dating Safety Tips
Saturday, March 11th, 2006online dating is a truly phenomenal change in the way that we meet new
people in modern society. Gone are the days of blind dating somebody
that you have never laid an eye on. Who hasn’t had a bad experience
with a blind date that some colleague or family member has sent you on?
I get the shivers just thinking about some of these blind dates that I
have been on. Online dating removes many of the negative unknowns while
allowing you to meet some great people that you would never have met
otherwise. It has become so popular over the last decade that today
alone there is numerous reality TV shows dealing with the subject of
online dating. After you have spent some time in front of your PC
communicating with a person, you will want to meet him or her face to
face. It is important to remember that even though you have spent quite
a bit of time communicating and maybe even exchanging photos or videos
with each other, you still don’t know the complete history of this person.

1. First rule in safe online dating is to meet the person somewhere in
a public place. Don’t let him to pick you up from home on the first
date. If it’s possible try to arrange some kind of double date because
you will be and feel safer having somebody with you that you trust.
2. If you don’t want to feel under any obligation pay half of the bill.
3. You found a person that you really like trough online dating and you
finally meet him in a bar. Remember that alcohol can affect your
judgment. So try not to have too many alcoholic drinks.
4. It’s safer to use your own transportation. This way you won’t have
to depend on the person that you are dating.
5. Online dating is great and you can meet very interesting people.
Always keep in mind though that what you see on your computer can be
very different from the reality. For example if your online date said
that he is a very religious man this doesn’t mean that you can trust
him. As with any relationship it takes time before we really get to
know our other half in the relationship.
6. One of the most important safety rules is to let someone else know
where you are. Believe me when I tell you that this is safer. If
something bad happens, there is at least someone that knows where to
look for you. It’s best for you to tell a friend to phone you and check
on you at a pre- arranged time.
7. If you really like the person that you met through online dating
it’s still good to stay alert. You never know what can happen.
In conclusion: Online dating is one of the greatest developments in our
day and age. Just remember to be safe and responsible.
The next time your aunt tries to fix you up with somebody in her church
group, tell her that you already have a boyfriend…in South Africa.
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Love Is Like A Virus On The Loose
Friday, March 10th, 2006love is like a virus. It is not something that we choose or possess any modicum of control over. it is something that just happens: a growing organism that takes over our brains and insidiously robs us of our reason. Which is wonderful and great when that love is returned, but soul [...]


